We often want to comment on another person, animal, or object regarding their appearance (or demeanor), either someone we are talking to or someone we are talking about. One word we can use for this is sembrare "to seem."  It can be used by itself:  

'Sti [questi] baffetti quando ti sono usciti? Sembri un uomo, eh?

When did you grow this moustache? You look like a man, huh?

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Although sembrare (to seem) can be used by itself, it's often personalized with an indirect object pronoun such as mi (to me), ti (to you), ci (to us), etc.

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Mi sembri nervoso (you seem irritable to me).

Tu sei perfettamente vestito per questo posto e mi sembri molto a tuo agio.

You are dressed perfectly for this place, and you seem very at ease to me.

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But it's also common to use the verb vedere (to see), thus shifting the focus to the speaker. 

Mamma mia, come vi vedo nervosi.

My goodness, how nervous you seem.

My goodness, how nervous I see you [as being].

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Però... io ti vedo strana.

But... you seem strange (you're acting weird).

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Using vedere can be connected with "looking." In English, we keep the focus on the person we're describing ("you"). In Italian, the grammatical focus is on the person commenting. 

Ti vedo bene, Giorgio.

You look good, Giorgio.

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Let's look at some questions using these same formulas.

Che c'è, ti sembro troppo disinvolta forse?

What, do I seem too flippant to you perhaps?

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Sara (the speaker) could have said, 

Che c'è, mi vedi troppo disinvolta forse?

What, do you see me as too flippant, perhaps?

 

Dite la verità, come vi sembro?

Tell me the truth, how do I look (to you)?

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She could have said:

Dite la verità, come mi vedete?

Tell me the truth, how do I look (to you) [how do you see me]?

The way you want to comment will vary according to context and personal preference. But now you can choose! For more about sembrare, see this lesson. 

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